Off and on, for the last 10 or 11 months, Ryan Woods has been on my mind. According to Rob, we haven't seen him in about nine years. That's probably true. I'm not sure. But, his image is fresh in my mind. Such a genuine, fun and hilarious person. Now a husband and a dad. And, someone who is dealing with some deadly cancer.
The last tests show that, unless something miraculous happens, he has about three to six months to live. I'm not sure of his exact age, but he's about 30 years old. He has a great wife, a six-year old son and a four-year old daughter, which correspond to the ages of Malachi and Silas. They are church planters in Vancouver. They are pretty hippy and all-natural. In so many ways, I see our family in them. Although we aren't close to them, I kind of feel like this is happening to us in a way because we are where they are in so many areas of life. I can imagine what it must be like to be telling your kids about this, and then months later, telling them that it hasn't gone away. Explaining that it looks like dad will die. I can try to imagine what it's like for his wife Jess - thinking of life without her husband, a single mom, and heartbroken.
I've cried many days over this. I think about them and pray for them dozens of times a day. My kids pray for them multiple times a day. He has been blogging about his journey
here. He has some incredible and extremely important things to share. You really should read it. Lots of people get cancer, but most of them don't see it as an opportunity. I don't know that Ryan would say he sees it as an opportunity, but he has definitely used this opportunity to share God.
As he says, we don't know why this is happening. But, I do know one thing that has come of this - people are seeing God through Ryan and Jess. What a glory they are to God. It is so common for people to hold to certain beliefs about God, until they are put to the test. And then, they are done with those beliefs about God being good and loving. But, not Ryan. Sure, he's angry and scared for his family. But, he stills (rightly) sees himself as an instrument of God. And he has chosen to be a very powerful one. I pray he is healed. Like countless others, I will continue to beg God for that. But, whether or not God chooses to do that, I am inspired by Ryan, and I know that God is so proud of him for using this time to share the gospel and for choosing to continue to believe and live in the overwhelming love of God. I pray that I can be as faithful as my friend Ryan.